Some ideas stay with you forever. Even if you forget them briefly, they never fully leave you but rather get more impactful each time you rediscover them. I return to the axioms below again and again because of how much perspective I continue to gain from them. …

I used to think I was an introvert because I got drained by socializing. I learned it wasn’t the socializing that was the problem, it was the KIND of socializing that got to me. I hate small talk. So much so that I founded a workshop called SMALL TALK SUCKS…

Here’s what I mean by that. *** As a culture we are horrified by rape. Unless the rapist is white. Unless the rapist is an athlete. Unless the rapist is rich. Unless the rapist is powerful. Unless the rapist is a really great businessman. Unless the rapist looks like the…

On Effort: A Love Letter To The People Who Make Me Feel Loved. Everyone wants to be included. Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated and seen and valued and honored and treasured. Categorical statements are rarely true (and usually annoying as f*ck to boot), but I believe those are…